Hey, I’m Jessika — your FREAKY BESTFRIEND and sex coach based in Houston, Texas. I specialize in helping men level up their bedroom game with real, no- BS adult sex education.

This new Freaky Bestfriend blog is where I give in-depth information to help men go harder and be better in bed, so if you want to improve your sexual skillset and feel more confident in intimate situations - you’re in the right place!

My mission as a former reading teacher is to provide quality sex education from a woman’s perspective, and to also be able to share insight and personal experiences that most women are too afraid to share.

In America, sex education is merely a one semester basic health course or a six week unit in gym class, so most men are not properly prepared to have a healthy sex life. Adult sex education is important because it fills critical gaps in knowledge, promotes healthy relationships, and supports personal well-being in ways that traditional sex ed often misses.

5 Things to Expect from Adult Sex Education

📚1. It Goes Beyond the Basics

Most people only get a limited, clinical view of sex in school—focused on the reproductive systems, STDs, and abstinence. Adult sex education goes deeper than that and addresses so much more. It includes

• Pleasure and consent

• Communication and emotional intimacy

• Realistic expectations around sex

💬 2. Better Communication = Better Sex

A lot of issues in the bedroom come down to poor communication. Adult sex ed teaches how to:

• Express needs and boundaries clearly

• Ask for (and give) feedback

• Build trust and intimacy

💥 3. Unlearning Shame and Myths

Many adults carry religious shame, guilt , or confusion about sex from childhood. The internet and social media has given us access to more accurate information . Adult sex ed helps:

• Challenge stigma and misinformation

• Normalize desires and kinks

• Create a healthier mindset around sexuality

🧠 4. It Supports Mental & Emotional Health

Good sex (and a healthy relationship with your sexuality) boosts self-esteem, reduces stress, and fosters connection. Adult sex ed empowers you to:

• Feel more confident in your body and desires

• Handle rejection and vulnerability better

• Heal from past sexual trauma or confusion

• Improve sexual dysfunction (ED, PE)

👏 5. Pleasure Is a Skill

Sex is like anything else—you get better with education and practice. Coaches have video and audio lessons to guide your body movements.

Sex education helps men specifically:

• Understand anatomy (male and female)

• Use oral sex techniques that actually work

• Master Multiple Penetration Techniques

• Have real passionate sex, no faking

Adult sex education helps you show up better in bed and as a partner because you are more informed, more confident, and more connected