9 Freaky Ways to Eat Her Pussy

Let’s talk about the most underrated superpower a man can have: eating pussy like a pro. This isn’t about rushing through it like it’s on a checklist. Nah — this is about eating, no devouring her like she’s dessert and the main course.

Why Eating Pussy Is Important During Sex

(And why skipping it is a rookie mistake)

Let’s be real: oral sex on women isn’t just “extra” — it’s essential. If you’re skipping pussy-eating, you’re skipping one of the most powerful ways to turn her on, make her cum, and show her you actually care about her pleasure/satisfaction.

Most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone

Yep, it’s not just about thrusting your tongue inside her vagina.
The clit is actually the main attraction here— and oral is one of the best ways to stimulate it directly with a warm soft tongue. If you're not eating her pussy good someone else will.

It makes her feel desired and worshipped

There’s something deeply intimate and powerful about putting your mouth there — and doing it with enthusiasm is the cherry on top.
She’ll feel sexy, seen, and wanted. That alone can make her come, so be genuine.

It builds insane sexual tension

Oral can be part of the foreplay or the grand finale. Start with your lips, kiss it, or tease her with your tongue. Either way will turn her on and get her wet. It lengthens the pleasure and slows sex down in the best way. You’re savoring her. That kind of passion from a lover will lead to amazing oral sex.

It helps her relax and open up

Pleasure lowers anxiety for women. Eating her out gently, attentively, and with confidence helps her feel safe, aroused, and emotionally connected. That always equals better, wetter, more passionate sex for the both of you.

It makes you unforgettable

Anyone can fumble through sex with a few good pumps. But the guy who eats her like a queen and dicks her down? He’s the one she keeps thinking about. The one she brags to her friends about. The one she texts at 2 a.m. like “hey…wyd”

If you want to be good in bed overall, learn how to eat pussy like it’s your job. If you want to be unforgettable in bed, learn to love it.

Whether you’re brand new or just want to level up, here are 9 freaky, ways to eat her out that’ll leave her moaning, shaking, squirting, and thinking about you for days.

🚨 9 Techniques Men can use to Eat Her Pussy Better

1. The Tease & Edge

How to Do It: Don’t go straight to the clit

That’s the rookie mistake. The clit is the main event, not the opening act.
Start with slow kisses on her inner thighs, hips, lower belly. Get close — but don’t touch it yet.
Make her want it first.

Lick everywhere except her clit

Trace around it. Lick the outer lips. Tease her opening.
Build that edge. Don’t give her the release until she’s practically shaking.

Use your breath

Hover your mouth over her pussy and breathe hot air onto it. That warm, tingly sensation will light her up without even touching her.

Light, slow licks — and pause

Start with barely-there strokes of your tongue. Go soft. Go slow. Then stop. Let her hips chase your mouth. That’s when you know she’s getting desperate.

Pull back right before she comes

If she’s close, stop for a second. Gently kiss her thighs. Let her calm down just a bit, then go back in.
This is edging, repeat as many times as she can handle and it will make her final orgasm ten times stronger.

Remember!!!

Teasing isn’t about holding back pleasure — it’s about amplifying it.
The more anticipation you build, the harder her orgasm will hit.
So take your time. Be playful. Stay in contro

2. Figure Eight 8

The Figure 8 Technique is exactly what it sounds like:
You're using your tongue to trace the shape of a figure 8 (or infinity symbol) around her clit and surrounding areas. It’s smooth, rhythmic, and hits multiple pleasure zones in one sexy motion.

How to Do It: Start with flat, wide licks
Use the flat of your tongue to get her wet and warmed up. Think slow, deliberate movements — you're not in a rush

Visualize the 8 around her clit
Imagine her clit is the center point where the loops of the 8 cross.
You’ll trace one loop above it, then swoop down and around below it — in a continuous motion

Keep it smooth, not choppy
It’s not a figure “scribble.” 😂 The sexiest version is slow, fluid, and intentional figure 8’s
You’re gliding — not racing

Pressure matters
Use medium pressure — not too hard, not too light. Listen to her body: if she moans louder or grinds into you, keep that pace and pressure locked in.

Mix it up
Once she’s really into it, alternate between clockwise and counterclockwise figure 8s.
Then maybe pause at the top of the 8 (right on the clit) and give it a suck or a flick before starting again.

Why It Works:

• It keeps the tongue moving in a pattern that naturally stimulates both the clit and the surrounding nerve endings.

• It avoids overstimulation by not staying in one spot too long.

• It builds rhythm, which helps lead her toward orgasm.

• It feels intentional and skillful, like you know what you're doing — not just poking around.

Bonus Freaky Tip:

Slide a finger or two inside her pussy or ass while doing the figure 8 with your tongue. That double action is intense, it will be Game over.

3. The Sucker

Don’t overdo the suction — you’re not trying to vacuum her soul.

How to be a sucker 🍭

Start with warm-up licks

Before you even start sucking, get her clit ready.
Lick her slowly. Tease around the area. Flatten your tongue and do soft up-and-down or circular motions. Don’t just rush in — you want that clit engorged and sensitive first.

Use your lips, not just suction

You’re sucking, not slurping.
Gently wrap your lips around her clit like you would a nipple — soft, warm, with a little pull.
No teeth. No tight vacuum. Think: sexy seal, not Hoover.

Create a rhythm she can ride

Once she starts moaning or grinding on your face, that’s your cue: lock in the rhythm.
Suck softly, til her juices flow.

Alternate Ending

Hold the clit gently between your lips

Once she’s close, you can pull her clit into your mouth just slightly and hold it there with light suction. Then pulse your tongue against it. That’s the move that tips her over.

After she comes, don’t move immediately. Keep your mouth there, soft and still.
Let her ride the aftershocks. If she says she’s too sensitive — back off gently, and kiss her thighs. She’ll love you for not rushing her to finish.

Sucking her clit the right way isn’t just about skill — it’s about tuning into her body.
Be present, be passionate, and remember: you’re not just eating pussy — you’re giving her a full-body experience

4. The Pancake Technique:

Flatten Your Tongue and Devour That Pussay

You ever eat a pancake and just smother it with syrup, licking up every drop with a flat tongue?
That’s the energy here. The Pancake Technique is all about using your tongue wide, flat, and soft — not pointy or pokey — to cover as much surface area as possible.

How to Do the Pancake Technique:

Stick your tongue out and flatten it

Think: soft, lazy, heavy licks — like your tongue is melted butter. You’re not poking at her clit. You’re laying your whole tongue over it and slowly dragging up or across.

Make long, smooth strokes

Start from the bottom of her vulva and slowly drag your tongue up — over her opening, labia, and finally over her clit. Or go side-to-side across the clit with a flat tongue.
Smooth. Wet. Controlled.

Use pressure — not speed

It’s not fast flicking. It’s steady pressure with a soft, wide tongue. Think of it like giving her clit a warm, wet massage.

Lock in a rhythm

Once she reacts — moans, arches, pulls you closer — don’t switch up. Keep the same flat-tongue motion going in rhythm. Let her grind into it. Ride that wave.

Why It Works:

• It covers more nerve endings: A flat tongue spreads warmth and pressure over the clit and surrounding areas.

• It mimics soft body contact: Feels more like skin-on-skin than a jabby tongue.

• It’s perfect for sensitive clits: Especially after she’s already come or close to climaxing.

She’ll melt — just like that pancake.

5. The Combo Fingers/Tongue

This is what we call advanced pussy eating — it’s when your mouth and fingers team up, you’re giving her clit and her G-spot the attention they crave.
Here’s how to do it like a pro — not a porn fail.

Start with the mouth — no fingers yet

Warm her up. Lick slow. Tease her thighs. Focus on her clit. Get her wetter than wet before you even think about sliding a finger in. You want her moaning and squirming first — not tensing up.

Slide in slowly

Once she’s begging, gently slide one lubed finger into her pussy. Use your other hand to spread her lips or rest on her thigh for stability. Start with one finger, then two if she’s comfortable and asking for more.

Find that G-spot

Curl your finger upward — like a “come here” motion — and feel for that soft, spongy area on the front wall of her vagina. It’s about 1–2 inches in. This is where the magic happens.

Lock your mouth on her clit

Now your tongue should be focused exclusively on the clit — flat, soft, and rhythmic. You’re creating consistent, firm pressure while your fingers work inside. Lick it. Suck it.

Sync your rhythm

Her body wants consistency. So match the rhythm of your tongue to your fingers.
For example:

• Finger curl in a slow pulse = slow, strong licks

• Faster fingers = faster tongue flicks or steady suction

But once she starts reacting? Lock in. Don’t switch it up and watch her cum

6. Oral/Anal Combo

How to Finger Her Anus During Oral Sex

(For when she wants it nasty and next-level)

First things first: this is for women who are into anal play or curious about it. Consent is non-negotiable. But if she’s down? Ohhhh you’re about to give her something unforgettable.

Mouth on Clit, Finger in Ass

Ask First —

Before anything goes in the backdoor, make sure she’s cool with anal play.
Say something like: “You want me to tease your ass while I lick you?”

“Let me play with both your holes, baby…” 😂 but not as cheesy

Or start by massaging around her asshole with your finger while your mouth is on her clit. If she moans and pushes back into it? It’s a go

Use Lube. Every. Damn. Time.

The anus doesn’t self-lubricate like the pussy. So if you’re planning to finger it — lube up.
Your own spit can work in the moment, but a good water-based lube is smoother, safer, and way better.

Start on the outside

Use your lubed finger to circle her rim gently while you’re eating her out.
Tease her. Tap. Rub in slow circles. No pressure to insert — just stimulate the nerves first.
You want her clit and her ass buzzing with anticipation.

Slide in sloooowly

Once she's relaxed and into it, gently press the tip of your finger in. Go slowly — like molasses slow.
Let her adjust. If she tightens up, back off. If she moans or pushes back? Keep going.

Keep your tongue locked on her clit

Your mouth stays busy while your finger takes care of the ass. This is advanced multitasking — lick her clit like you mean it while your finger works inside her ass in slow, steady motions.

Use rhythm and control

Once your finger is in and she’s into it:

• Curl or pulse your finger gently

• Match your finger movement with your licking rhythm

• Don’t speed up unless she does

Triple stimulation (clit + pussy + ass) is also an option, simply add a dildo or vibrator to send her into full-body orgasm mode. Just be ready for screaming, shaking, and soul-snatching results.

Safety First: Keep it clean and classy

Don’t switch that finger from ass to pussy without cleaning it first. Ever.
Keep one finger dedicated to anal and the other to vaginal if you're doing both. Hygiene = hot and respectful.

Ass play during oral sex is next-level intimacy and power. It’s about trust, surrender, and pure, filthy pleasure. Done right? She’ll come harder, longer, and remember it forever

7. Facesitting Oral Sex

(aka How to Be the oral submissive She Deserves)

When she climbs on your face and sits like the queen she is, this isn’t just hot — it’s power play meets pleasure overload. But a lot of men fumble the moment or get overwhelmed.

Here’s what a real freak does when he’s underneath her:

Relax and Submit — But Stay Active

Let her take control. You’re the seat, the toy, the service.
But that doesn’t mean lay there like a pillow. Keep your mouth engaged, tongue moving, lips sucking — you’re actively admiring and pleasing her pussy.

Position Yourself Right

Lie flat on your back with a pillow under your head for support. Bend your knees if needed, keep your hands free — you might want to grip her thighs or ass (gently), or just rest your hands behind your head like the good little oral slave you are. 😈

Let Her Grind — Don’t Overthink It

She’s going to move her hips. Ride your face. Grind on your mouth.
Let her control the rhythm — she knows exactly what pressure and angle she needs to cum

Breathe, Baby, Breathe

Worried about suffocating?

• Inhale through your nose between licks.

• Nudge your chin or tilt slightly to get air if needed.

• And if you really need a break — tap her thigh gently or use a safe word.

Keep Your Tongue Flat and Ready

Use the pancake technique — wide, flat tongue that she can ride. Let her rub her clit and lips all over your tongue and face Then when she slows down, suck her clit for added pressure.

Use Your Hands Right

• Grip her thighs or ass to stabilize yourself

• Spread her cheeks to expose her more

• Or just let her pin your hands down — power play activated

Make Some Noise

Moan into her pussy. Let her feel your voice vibrating through your mouth and into her clit.
Women get even wetter when they know you’re loving it too.

Hold That Position Through the Orgasm

Don’t pull back when she starts shaking or cumming — lean into it.
Let her ride that high all the way through. Stay locked in.
You’ll know when to ease up — her body will tell you.

Facesitting isn’t just sex — it’s pussy worship.
So open your mouth, check your ego, and let her glaze your face.

8. How to Make Her Cum in 69

69 can be hot AF — but a lot of men just go through the motions, too distracted by their own pleasure to really focus on hers.

Wanna make her explode while she’s got your dick in her mouth? Here's how:

Put Her on Top (Or At an Angle)

Let her straddle your face — either fully on top or in a side-angle version of 69.
Why? Because it gives her control over rhythm and pressure. She can ride your tongue, and you can stay laser-focused on her clit.

You can get on top of her but it’s harder for her to fully relax and orgasm.

Lock in Your Mouth Game

This ain’t the time for fast, frantic tongue flicks.
Smooth controlled licks and make sure to
focus on her clit. Build a rhythm and stick to it.
If she starts sucking harder or grinding more — you’re doing it right. Don’t stop!

Add a Finger Inside

Slide a lubed finger into her pussy (or ass, if she’s into that).
Use that "come here" motion to hit her G-spot while your tongue stays on her clit.
This combo is deadly — and might make her squirt all over your face if she’s into that.

Let Her Focus so she can Cum Hard

Sometimes during 69, she’ll pause her blowjob when she’s close.
Let her. That’s a sign she’s losing control — and you’re winning.
Keep licking. Keep fingering. Let her ride your mouth all the way to the edge.

Pro Tip for Positions:

• Face-up 69: She lies on top, facing your feet. Great for control and access to her clit.

• Sideways 69: Lie side by side for more comfort and easier breathing.

• Propped-up 69: Use pillows under her hips or chest to angle her pussy perfectly to your mouth.

69 isn’t just for fun — it’s a chance to blow her mind while she’s blowing you. Double the pleasure 😈

9 The Dirty Talker

Why Dirty Talk While Eating Her Out Is So Powerful:

• It turns her on mentally and physically

• It shows you’re into it (which makes her way wetter)

• It helps her let go and get lost in the moment

• It creates a power dynamic: you’re in control, and she’s melting under you

What to Say (and When):

How to Balance Tongue and Talk:

• Say 1–2 lines, then go back to licking.

• Keep it low, slow, and confident — like you’re in total control.

• Don’t overtalk — silence has its moments too (especially when your mouth is busy making her twitch).

Before You Even Start

Set the tone while you're kissing down her body:

“I’ve been thinking about your pussy all day…”
“I can’t wait to taste you.”
“You’re so wet already — fuck, I love that.”

Let her know this isn’t just a stop on the way to sex — this is the event.

While You’re Teasing Her

Use your voice between licks. Whisper it into her inner thigh, over her lips, or right above her clit:

“You like that?”
“Tell me what you want, baby.”
“Look how wet you are… I haven’t even started.”
“I’m gonna take my time with this pretty pink pussy.”

This gets in her head while you’re working her body.

While Your Licking on Her Clit

Between licks, pauses, or as you take a breath:

“You taste so fucking good.”
“Come for me. Right on my tongue.”
“I want you dripping all over my face.”
“You gonna squirt for me, baby?”

Use a deep, slow voice — it hits her brain like a second tongue.

While She’s Close or Coming

Keep talking her through it. Stay right on the clit, and whisper into her pussy:

“There it is… yeah, cum for me.”
“I feel you shaking, baby. Let go.”
“You’re so fucking sexy when you come.”
“Mmm, that’s it — give it to me.”

Words + rhythm = full-body collapse.

🧨 Bonus Dirty Talk Tips:

• Use her name: “Kiesha, you’re gonna cum so hard on my mouth…” 🔥

• Ask questions???

• Be nasty, but tuned in: Only say freaky shit she’s into — keep it sexy, not cringey.

Dirty talk while eating pussy turns a good orgasm into a memorable one. It’s the difference between “that was nice” and “holy shit, I can still hear his voice in my head.” So talk to her. Tease her. Command her.

Words = arousal. A dirty mouth with a skilled tongue? Chef’s kiss. 🤌

😈😈😈Final Freaky Thought 😈😈😈

Eating Pussy isn’t just a sexual act — it’s an experience for both people. If you take your time, read her reactions, and treat it like the gift it is, she’ll crave your mouth.

Now go be the Pussy Eating Pro you were meant to be